Surrogacy education

Exploring independent surrogacy in Canada?

A glimpse into the many ways families are built through surrogacy. Featuring Intended Parents from diverse backgrounds, this video reflects the care, connection, and intention behind ethical, independent surrogacy journeys.

What Intended Parents say…

In our first month in the program, we had more than 10 potential surrogates connect with us and were able to quickly find a perfect match!

β€œThe program helped us feel informed, prepared, and supported even before we officially began. The guidance from Ariel and the encouragement of other intended parents removed so much stress from the process and we were able to truly enjoy our journey, from finding our surrogate to welcoming our son into the world.”

β€” Ashley & Kevin

Welcomed their son via surrogacy in 2025

What is independent surrogacy in canada?

Independent surrogacy means connecting with a surrogate directly, rather than being matched through an agency.

It’s legal, safe, and a real option for IPs. It doesn’t have to be complicated, you just have to know what you’re doing.

Why intended parents choose independent

Why Intended Parents pursue surrogacy independently

Cost effective

Cost effective (no agency fee in independent surrogacy)

Control

More control over your match, your timeline, etc.

Speed

Find a surrogate faster. No waitlist when you’re looking independently.

hi. we’re ashley and ariel.

our program helps ips complete their journeys independently.

we’ve taken everything we know about independent surrogacy from firsthand experience and years of clinical work and built it into a program you can actually follow.

No more trying to make sense of conflicting information from a dozen different sources. This is the roadmap we wish we’d had.

Learn how to (learning outcomes) or our program will teach you:

Understanding altruistic surrogacy in Canada

How to find and vet your own surrogate.

Receipt management and required documentation

How to protect yourself and avoid scams

The 5 step surrogacy process

Practical strategies to support your mental health

Two parents holding a newborn baby together outdoors.

We help Intended Parents like you:

1

Find and connect with your ideal surrogate.

2

Protect your investment by avoiding costly mistakes.

3

Avoid exploitative and coercive practices.

independent surrogacy program

The modern approach to surrogacy in Canada

  • No wait list

  • No agency fees

  • No more misinformation

Canada’s only independent surrogacy program

The modern approach to surrogacy in Canada

  • No wait list

  • No agency fees

  • No more misinformation

What our Intended Parents say…

β€œIn our first month in the program, we had more than 10 potential surrogates connect with us and were able to quickly find a perfect match!”

β€œThe program helped us feel informed, prepared, and supported even before we officially began. The guidance from Ariel and the encouragement of other intended parents removed so much stress from the process and we were able to truly enjoy our journey, from finding our surrogate to welcoming our son into the world.”

β€” Ashley & Kevin

Welcomed their son in 2025

β€œWe are starting our independent journey in Canada with a qualified GC! Something I didn’t think would be possible in such a short period of time!”

β€œWe felt really safe with Ariel’s guidance and were confident that we were getting appropriate and truthful information from her course rather than the deep dark web.”

β€” Sara & Lucas

Currently matched

β€œInstead of just waiting, it feels like we’re moving forward together and that makes all the difference.”

β€œWe truly love the program, especially the coaching calls and the chance to share experiences with others. It gives us a lot of support and inspiration.”

β€” Jim & Sander

β€œI thought finding a surrogate would be the hardest part of my fertility journey but it wasn’t!”

β€œIt’s great to have all the information in one outlet. I was able to gather my questions all week long and then have them answered in one place at the support calls.”

β€” R

Welcomed her daughter in 2025

β€œI couldn't believe how much support and open communication joining this community offered.”

β€œThere is no other place where you can get such comprehensive but also practical information. This program is invaluable for anyone wanting to explore surrogacy as an option.”

β€” Anna & Kit

β€œBefore starting we were overwhelmed with where to begin. The program has helped us feel less alone and more prepared.”

β€œThe training modules provided a clear starting point and solid foundation to get to the next step of our journey. The community is amazing and the support goes a long way especially when things get hard.”

β€” Melissa & Patrick

β€œI wish we would’ve been able to get all of this information before our first journey.”

β€œThe program is such a clear overview of all the steps that come with a surrogacy journey in Canada. Ariel managed to explain in 15 videos what we had been researching for weeks, if not months!”

β€” Y & G

Welcomed their second child in 2025

β€œMy partner and I joined the community early on in our surrogacy journey and we’re so glad we did!”

β€œThe knowledge and experience that Ariel has, and the community she’s established is so beneficial to anyone who’s considering an ethical surrogacy journey.”

β€” D & J

Is independent surrogacy a good fit for you?

Talk to a surrogacy expert to find out.

The 5 step surrogacy process

Not quite ready yet?

That’s okay! This process can be overwhelming. If you’re still exploring the idea of surrogacy, let us help you get started.

The founder of Carried With Love seated in a living room, representing leadership in independent surrogacy guidance.

Meet Ariel Taylor

Retired surrogate, now on a mission to make surrogacy easier for Intended Parents

Ariel spent nearly a decade in the fertility world as a surrogate and egg donor. Now as a Social Worker, she focusses on improving the surrogacy experience for Intended Parents. Her goal is to reduce emotional, financial, and ethical risk throughout the surrogacy process while making mental health support a priority.

A message from Ariel

Canadian surrogacy FAQs

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